{"id":10263,"date":"2010-03-09T20:38:33","date_gmt":"2010-03-10T01:38:33","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.splendoroftruth.com\/curtjester\/?p=10263"},"modified":"2010-03-09T20:38:33","modified_gmt":"2010-03-10T01:38:33","slug":"defending-the-faith","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.splendoroftruth.com\/curtjester\/2010\/03\/defending-the-faith\/","title":{"rendered":"Defending the Faith"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>The story about the Catholic school in the Diocese of Denver not allowing the children of a Lesbian couple to attend has certainly taken off in the media and of course raise a lot of protest from the homosexual community.<\/p>\n<p>I certainly agree with Archbishop Charles J. Chaput who calls it a &#8220;painful situation.&#8221; \u00a0Even when an action is taken correctly for the right reasons it does not prevent the suffering of those involved. \u00a0As Archbishop Chaput also said:<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>\u201cIf parents don\u2019t respect the beliefs of the Church, or live in a manner that openly rejects those beliefs, then partnering with those parents becomes very difficult, if not impossible.\u201d<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>There is a comparable situation when it comes to the baptism of children. \u00a0For example in Canon law:<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>Canon 868. For the licit baptism of an infant it is necessary that: \u00a0&#8230; (2) there be a founded hope that the infant will be brought up in the Catholic religion; if such a hope is altogether lacking, the baptism is to be put off according to the prescriptions of particular law and the parents are to be informed of the reason.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>While education is different from baptism there is some commonality and it is rather difficult in this sad situation that the children will receive the proper reinforcement of what the Church teaches generally and their living situation specifically denies part of what the Church teaches. \u00a0There is also of course the scandal caused by such a situation that attempts to normalize a same-sex relationship as being equal to heterosexual marriage. \u00a0It is very sad that the children are caught in the middle of this, but the same-sex couple raising them put them in this situation in the first place. Whether or not they understood what the policy was or the fact the the school would be actually faithful to Archdiocese policy is something we \u00a0don&#8217;t know.<\/p>\n<p>Fr. Breslin who made the decision comments are <a href=\"http:\/\/www.fatherbillsblog.com\/heart\/2010\/03\/moses-and-the-burning-bush.html\" target=\"_blank\">well worth reading in full<\/a>.<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>This past week we implemented a policy that has been the most difficult decision of my life.\u00a0 The choice could have been made to do nothing and allow a lesbian couple to enroll their child in our Kindergarten.\u00a0 But that choice would have been against Archdiocesan policy; and when a priest is ordained he promises obedience to his bishop; and I cannot violate that vow; and I will not.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<blockquote><p>The choice before me was either to\u00a0protect the beliefs of our faith or pretend nothing was happening.\u00a0 But our school, after all, is a\u00a0Catholic school.\u00a0And our\u00a0reason for existence, both as a parish and as a Catholic school, is to make disciples of Jesus Christ.\u00a0Being disciples of Jesus Christ is very demanding. Yes, being disciples entails\u00a0adherence to the many examples of Jesus\u2019 love: love one another as I have loved you; be not the first to throw a stone; judge not lest you be judged.\u00a0 Think of the Good Samaritan story and the Prodigal Son.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<blockquote><p>&#8230;<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>Society and way too many Catholic institutions have decided that &#8220;nothing was happening&#8221; and thus have ignored or even aided such situation. \u00a0He goes on to talk about \u00a0repentance\u00a0and the sanctity of marriage. \u00a0Though I would quibble with the following.<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>Would that I could wave a magic wand and make all of the present struggle disappear.\u00a0<strong> <span style=\"font-weight: normal;\">I hate the fact that I had to make a choice between being loving and protecting the teachings of the church<\/span><\/strong>.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>I would certainly argue that there is not a choice in this case between protecting the faith and loving those involved. \u00a0Love is willing the good for the other and when you act for their good by not affirming something that is objectively grave sin you are in fact\u00a0committing\u00a0an act of love. \u00a0Reminding someone that they are in fact sinning when it is down prudentially is an act of mercy. \u00a0If he had ignored the\u00a0situation\u00a0he would not have not been loving them in any way. The culture, as it often does, gets things totally backwards. \u00a0They call promoting same-sex relationships as good and any objection as hatred and homophobia. When you ignore sin calling it good it does not eliminate the effects of sin and does harm even with the most\u00a0sincere\u00a0motives. \u00a0So often what is called sincere is really SINcere in that it affirms instead of rebuking sin.<\/p>\n<p>One thing that has annoyed me in these stories is that in almost all of them they are called Lesbian &#8220;parents.&#8221; Well perhaps one of them is the biological parent, but the other is the person they are living with. Same-sex relationships by their very nature are not fruitful. It is easy to understand all of the confusion considering the state of heterosexual relationships concerning fornication, divorce, and adultery. Too often heterosexual couples try to make their relationships just as unfruitful as same-sex ones via contraception and abortion.<\/p>\n<p>We should certainly pray for the children involved, the same-sex couple, those scandalized by the truth of what the Church teaches; along with Archbishop Chaput and Father Breslin who defended the truth.<\/p>\n<p>Fr. Z&#8217;s comments <a href=\"http:\/\/wdtprs.com\/blog\/2010\/03\/to-arms-denver-priest-attacked-for-being-obedient-poll-alert\/\" target=\"_blank\">on the story<\/a>.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>The story about the Catholic school in the Diocese of Denver not allowing the children of a Lesbian couple to attend has certainly taken off in the media and of&hellip;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[24],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-10263","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-punditry"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.splendoroftruth.com\/curtjester\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/10263","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.splendoroftruth.com\/curtjester\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.splendoroftruth.com\/curtjester\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.splendoroftruth.com\/curtjester\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.splendoroftruth.com\/curtjester\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=10263"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/www.splendoroftruth.com\/curtjester\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/10263\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":10265,"href":"https:\/\/www.splendoroftruth.com\/curtjester\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/10263\/revisions\/10265"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.splendoroftruth.com\/curtjester\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=10263"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.splendoroftruth.com\/curtjester\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=10263"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.splendoroftruth.com\/curtjester\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=10263"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}